Firstly, a lot of what you see on the internet is fake and you don't know it. That's why you should really only believe people you know personally, people you have met, and secondly, compare yourself to others.
You have your own pace.
Maybe the other person doesn't have children. For example, I have three children, so I don't compare my pace with other people at all.
Or those digital nomads who travel the world with their backpacks. They're welcome to do that, but I don't compare myself to them. I like being based here in rainy Duisburg because I have azerbaijan telegram screening three children, because I have my responsibilities here and I have my own pace and I go down my steps and you should take your steps too and not hope to jump onto the ten-meter board straight away.
3) The 10,000 Hour Rule
The 10,000-hour rule can be found in the book Mastery * by Robert Greene, as well as in the book Outliers * by Malcolm Gladwell.
It takes 10,000 hours to become really good at something and reach master status.